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The Message -- for Catholics of Southwestern Indiana -- On The Record-- Do your companions respect you TWO STEPS BEHIND Wa.k away if you want to/It's OK if you need to/Well you can run/But you can never hide/From the shadow/That's creeping up beside you/There's a magic running/Through your soul/But you can't have it all (REFRAIN) By CHARLIE MARTIN CNS COLUMNIST Whatever you do/I'll be two steps behind yotffWherever you go/And I'll be there to re- mind you/That it only takes a minute/Of your precious time/ turn around/I'll be two steps be- hind Take the time/To think about it/Just walk the line/You know you just can't fight it/Take a look around/And see what you can find/Like the fire/That's burning up inside/There's a magic/Running through your soul/But you can't have it all (REPEAT REFRAIN TWICE) Written by J. Elliott Sung by Def Leppard Copyright (c) 1993 by Sony Music Entertainment Inc. Do you like Arnold Schwarzen- negger? What do you think about heavy metal bands? If you enjoy them both, you must have loved this past summer's flick, "" Last Action Hero." Personally, I'm a fan of neither. Yet I decided to review Def Leppard's "'Two Steps Behind." The cassingle is this heavy metal group's latest hit, and is off the film's soundtrack disc. Leppard turned down the decibels for this release, and gave us something more than noise. The lyrics bring this question to mind: When it comes to relationships, how close is too close? The question refers to emotional distance and one's right to set boundaries with other people. Perhaps the movie is more focused on actual physi- cal distance when the person in the song says: "'Whatever you do, I'll be two steps behind you." Sometimes in relationships people pressure us to be closer than we want to be. They might ask us to reveal more of our thoughts or emotions than we feel comfortable sharing. Or they might demand that we accept their point of view as to what is right. For example, consider a dating situation where a person seeks more physical and sexual you judge morally or personally appropriate. If after you clarify your wishes this continues to press you for more of what he wants sexually, beware! This person is ested in respecting you. No matter how well expressed, love spect is not love at all. Personal boundaries are also im lies. At times we may need to communicate our boundary lies. This can be as simple family members to knock before or as intense as telling someone you love will not tolerate verbal abuse. Setting one's personal boundaries in a ship is always a right and a responsibility. times we might want someone to be only "'two behind," while other times we may want like two miles, especially when treat us with respect. Be sure to ask for what you need. If the son doesn't listen or refuses to accept your on closeness, talk to a trusted adult who you insist on the respect that you desire. 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Over 25 years sales and service in the Td-state 670 E. Franklin 42@3863 i CTNA offerings: Series focuses on bereavement "Understanding our losses," "Expressing your feelings," and "Your recovery and growth" are the titles of three programs in a series on bereavement. The series is presented by the Catholic Telecommunications Network of America and the diocesan Office of Communica- tions. The series is entitled Pas- sages: A Program for Heal- ing and Hope for Teens, with Patrick Del Zoppo, a clini- cal thanatologist and psy- chotherapist. The series will be presented "live" on Tuesdays, Nov. 2, 9, and 16, from 2 -- 3 p.m. CST. Videotapes will be available from the Media Center. Supl00ort your mcal pro:dxe organlzauons Medical Arts. 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