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.The Message -- for Catholics of Southwestern Indiana -- On The Record-- WHEN CAN I SEE YOU? Mending a broken romance When can my heart beat again/When does the pain ever end/When do the tears stop running over/When do you get over the end/I hear what you are saying/But I swear/That it is not making sense/So when can I see you again CNS COLUMNIST I REFRAIN When can I see you again/When can my heart beat again/When can I see you again/When can I breathe once again/When can I see you again When does my someday begin/When I've found someone again/What if I am not still truly over/ What am I supposed to do then/See what I'm saying here/Even if it is not making sense/So when can I see you again REPEAT REFRAIN Please hear what I'm saying/So when can I see you again REPEAT REFRAIN Written and Sung by Babyface Copyright (c) 1993 by Sony Music Entertainment Have you ever noticed that success in one area of life often leads to achievement in other en- deavors? For example, consider Babyface's music career. He has written numerous hits for other recording artists. Now he has his own back-to- back songs on the Top 40, his latest being "When Can I See You?" The song describes a broken a romance. The guy in the song is distressed over this separa- tion. All he can think about is getting back to- gether with his former girlfriend. Even if he meets someone new, he doubts he'll truly be over this girl. He appears to see reconcilia- tion as his only option for future happiness. The }ong is a bit melodramatic. And, in- deed, some dating relationship need to end as people learn more about each other. But let's as- sume in this case that the girl gives him a posi- tive response. What would be the best ways for them to try to put their relationship back to- gether? While there are no methods that guarantee success, certain steps could be constructive. First, there needs to "be an honest and clear assessment of what caused the problems. Some- times, a couple is too close to the conflict to ex- (Your comments are always welcome. address: Charlie Martin, RR 3, Box 182, Rock! port, IN 47635.) At the movies: Current reviews NEW YORK (CNS) -- The following are capsule reviews of movies recently reviewed by the U.S. Catholic Conference Office for Film and Broadcasting. "Bullets Over Broadway" (Miramax) Prohibition-era comedy in which a high-minded play- wright (John Cusack) accepts backing for his latest work from a gangster (Joe Viterelli) on condition his showgirl mis- tress (Jennifer Tilly) be in the cast, then during rehearsals falls for the play's fading star (Dianne Wiest), rewrites his script in collaboration with the mistress' hard-boiled body- guard (Chazz Palminteri) and comes to realize his inadequa- cies as an artist. Co-written (with Douglas McGrath) and directed by Woody Allen, the lightweight period proceedings are intermittently amusing and the exaggerated perfor- mances are fun for a while, but the theme's skewering of pre- tentiousness is heavy-handed and the philosophical asides lack wit and originality. Occa- sional stylized violence, some sexual situations and refer- ences as well as a few in- stances of profanity. The U.S. Catholic Conference classifica- tion is A-III m adults. The Mo- tion Picture Association of America rating is R -- re- stricted. "I Like It Like That" (Co- lumbia) After her husband (Jon Seda) is jailed for stealing a stereo, a Bronx housewife (Lauren Velez) provides for their three children by taking a job with a Manhattan music producer (Griffin Dunne) which leads to a marital split when the husband accuses her of sleeping with the producer and acknowledges his own af- fair with a neighbor. Written and directed by Darnell Mar- tin, the inner-city drama is most effective in depicting the tensions of ghetto life and the struggle to transcend its depri- vations, though the wife's growth in personal self-confi- dence is portrayed largely in terms of sexual liberation. Fre- quent sexual situations and references, a fairly graphic bedroom scene, a strong anti- drug scene involving a minor, some profanity and recurring rough language. The U.S. Catholic Conference classifica- tion is A-IV m adults, with reservations. The Motion Pic- J . ture Assomahon of America rating is R m restricted. "The Scout" (20th Century Fox) Down-on-his-luck baseball scout (Albert Brooks) in the hinterlands of Mexico discov- ers a phenomenal switch-hit- ting pitcher (Brendan Fraser) who, after being signed by the New York Yankees, is diag- nosed by a psychiatrist (Di- anne Wiest) as repressing ter- rible memories of childhood abuse and badly in need of therapy. Director Michael Ritchie begins with a light- weight but good-natured comic premise, then turns darkly se- rious by focusing on the player's emotional instability and its potential consequences until copping-out in a slick feel-good finale. Some heavy menace, a few sexual refer- ences and some profanity. The U.S. Catholic Conference clas- sification is A-III -- adults. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is PG-13 -- parents are strongly cautioned that some material may be in- appropriate for children under 13. "The Specialist" (Warner Bros.) A former CIA explosives ex- pert (Sylvester Stallone), hid- ing from a murderous col- league (James Woods), is lured into the open by an icy seduc- tress (Sharon Stone) who per- suades him to who slaughtered her years earlier. Every is despicable in Llosa's atrociously tally trashy, soft-core ! melodrama, in which olence is seen as the ate solution to any cessive violence, depiction of revenge ! extended sex scene and much rough U.S. Catholic sification is O sive. The Motion ciation of America -- restricted. E Family viewing from the diocesan Media Ce Following is a list of new movies currently being cata- logued in the Media Center, meant for family viewing throughout the diocese. Movies are available, with the approval of pastors or parish leaders, from the Catholic Center. For more in- formation, contact Marylou Ul- rich, coordinator of media ser- vices, at (812) 424-5536 or (800) 637-1731. My Secret Friend, 30 min- utes. A guardian angel story. The Story of David, 91 minutes. His triumphs made him a legend, his passion would nearly destroy him. Quo Vadis, 171 minutes. Marcus begins a journey that brings him into conflict with Nero's might and climaxes in the savagery of the lion pit of the Circus Maximus. The Scarlet and the Black, 156 minutes. The true story of Msgr. Hugh O'Fla- herty working in the Vatican during the German occupation. Yours, Mine and Ours, 107 minutes. This story is based on the Beardsley family of northern California. A wid- owed mother of eight and a widower of 10 create a chaotic household brimming with comic situations. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, 95 minutes. A timeless classic taken from the C.S Lewis series, "the Chroni- cles of Narnia." The Secret Garden, 100 minutes. Enjoy the charming characters, breathtaking loca- tions and captivating story. Miracles of Lourdes, Fa- tima, Guadeloupe and Knock, 58 minutes. A docu- mentary about the visions. The Story of Ruth, 132 minutes. The inspiring story of a woman's devotion. Les Miserables, 55 min- utes. The class story of one man's search for freedom, and another's quest for revenge. Silent Witness, 55 minutes. A documentary of an investiga- tion of the Shroud of Turin. Where the Red Fern Grows I, 108 minutes. The story of an Ozark boy's yearn- ing for two red-bone coon dogs, which his parents could not af- ford, during the Great Depres- sion. Where the Red Fern Grows II, 92 minutes. The re- turn of a young man from World War II to his grandfa- ther's home in Louisiana, where he tries to readjust to civilian life. Return to Glory: Michelangelo Revealed, 52 minutes. The restoration of the Sistine Chapel. Ann of Avonlia, 224 min- utes. A Walt Disney film about an independent young woman who gains new love, friendship and of the world. Sarah Plain and minutes. Set in of Sarah Wheaton swers an ad for a bride placed by a farmer. Skylark, 98 sequel to Sarah Plain A Time to minutes. The of Christmas s br mind with this about Angelo. The utes. Set on a De! Christmas Eve in story centers ton family. DEWIG BROS. PACKING CO. FRESH MEAT BEEF AND PORK HAUBSTADT, INDIANA amine this accurately. Consequently, it can help to talk over each son's point of view with trusted friends or one trained to help others with their Gaining such insight is the needed initial step an improved relationship. :: However, increased understanding will enough. After recognizing how each person has tributed to the problems there must be a commit- ment to change. This means that goals for acting differently in the future. Such goals must be clear and to the situations that caused the hurt. these goals should include a step-by-step action that will enable the two people to make the changes. Finally, both of them must be patient. clear goals and action plans, mistakes will be None of us have a can push to make us different persons. However, we can be patient and we fail, resetting our goals and continuing to change. Frankly, not many couples are willing to work this hard. But the effort can be worth it. God wants us to experience happiness lationships. Ask God to guide your way as you for change.