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I 'V,, 96 m= August 30, 1996 The Message -- for Catholics of Southwestern Indiana s )GIvIng yourself permission is first step tO "' " "' - " " " " -" " retirement alk- process took on a life of its own ;nts By JULIE CRUM  . "career is concluded. It is a time to ,all- Catholic News Service | :JI  ,----,- _r-v--| Remember, though, don't give nurture relationships. 300) i7-' ' ...-, ]1]']., .\\; | notice until you are absolutely re- Start with God. Set aside a Being financially able to retire | ...t.-,N'//_/ll ]"/7"[.   quired to do so, as short-timer time and a place in your resi- and being of a propel age to do ! -]' I ! | t l  " situations can arise that make dence for prayer. Consider culti- so are not necessarily the decid- |  ':--711   r  J,r"  co-workers resentful, vating the practice of centering iingfact°rsinmakingsuchade- |"'N' " I:..ll I I',/I When the time came to tell my prayer or reflect on the readings cision. Deciding to retire may |  (" | - I r  " closest friends at work, tears ac- of the day or upcoming Sunday hinge on whether you give your- | Kl- -I, '} | /"-[ /J ! t companied the announcement. I Mass. It is important to have a self permission to do so.     | ) f -  I [ felt as if I were deserting them, set daily time for prayer. My friend Bart and I have | /  ', |    a not leaving a job. This was ap- Nurture your relationships kept in touch for the many years |  : "    propriate, however, because with your spouse and/or friends "  theSe friends were and are im- since our high school days. In a f-..  by planning special outings. portant to me. Enjoy a new restaurant, see a recent conversation, I told him of ray plans to retire -- he was get- ting close to the time he could re- tire, too -- and of what a difficult decision it had been for me. I told him I was afraid of miss- ing the camaraderie of the work- place, afraid I would lose touch with some of my valued chums, afraid I would get depressed from the lack of stimulating challenges and, ultimately, afraid retirement Would make me feel worthless. As it turned out, none of these things happened. Because of that, I was able to encourage Bart to give the prospect of retir- ing serious consideration. The first step was the need to give himself" permission to even think about it. One way to begin the process of discernment is to pretend that you are going to retire for about two weeks. Whenever your job requires you to do something you don't enjoy, say to yourself, "This is the last time I'll do this." When you make your daily list of things to do, be aware of what you would or would not miss doing. When you hear about a book you'd like to read or an activity in which you'd like to take part, tell yourself, "I'll have time for that." In my own case, I was praying for discernment, looking for signs and waiting for divine interven- tion. To my surprise, retirement gradually started to seem right. After I made the decision, the As for telling others in the workplace, I made a point of going to each office to tell my news myself. This made each person in each office feel valued and ensured that conjecture as to my motivation was limited. The suggestion of a farewell party did not appeal to me at first. But I realized that bringing my career to closure in a visible, public way was psychologically essential ifI was going to start a new phase of my life. I not only had one party, but two. Retirement, though, is much more than the period after one's Life begin;00 at 40.. Advant, age Banking begins at 50. People age 50 and over are special customers to us. That's why we created a way of banking just for them. It's called 50+Advantage Banking. 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You may want to choose a pro- ject that needs your years of ex- pertise and your talents. Another life-giving relationship to be nurtured is that of nature. Be aware of seasonal changes in your area. Plant flowers. Put up a good, squiTel-proofbird feeder. If your situation will accommodate it, a small pet can add a new di- mension to your life. A friend sent me a card saying, "Retirement has its ups and downs. You can get up whenever you want to and lie down when- ever you feel like it." This is cer- tainly true, but. there are many other windows of opportunity that. will open to you when you m'e retired. And what happened to my friend, Bart? One month alter talking to him, I received an en- velope from him with an an- nouncement of his retirement. Once he gave himself permis- sion to evaluate the possibility, he noted, the prospect of retiring became irresistible. When he felt at peace with the idea, he set about making it happen. 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