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8 The Message -- for Catholics of Southwestern Indiana August 26, --- On The Record--- STAY (I MISSED YOU) You say/I only hear what I want to/And you say/I talk so all the time m so/And I thought What I felt was simple/And I thought/That I don't belong/And now that I am leav- ing/Now I know/That I did something wrong/'Cause I missed you/Yeah, I missed you Listening with an open mo!nod F- .... b, leave/But now I know that I " " e . [ .............. was wrong/Because I missed The most helpful way to reduce this confusion i uy tLo L. .,.,,l  you/Yeah, I missed you would be for them to agree upon some time apart. | You said ou ca h when commumcatmn oecomes aimcult, or wne |  cause " Yw ug t me/Be- mixed messages seem to be making an uncertain sit- you ant me/And one uation even worse, time away from the confusion can And you say/I only hear what I want to/I don't listen hard/I don't pay attention/To the dis tance/That you are running/Or to anyone, anywhere/I don't understand/If you really care/I'm only hearing negative/No, no, no m bad So I turned the radio on/I turned the radio up And this woman/Was singing my song/The lover's in love/And the other's run away/The lover is crying/Because the other won't stay/And some of us hover/When we weep for the other/Who was dying/Since the day they were born/Well, wellfUhis is not that/I think I'm throwing/But I'm thrown And I thought I'd live forever/But now I'm not for sure/You try to tell me/That I'm clever/But that won't take me anyhow/Or anywhere with you day I'll let you go/You try to give away a keeper/Or keep me because you know/You're just so scared to lose And you say/Stay/You say/I only hear what I want to Written by Lisa Loeb Sung by Lisa Loeb and Nine Stories Copyright (c) 1993 by Universal Studios Inc. The soundtrack to the film "Reality Bites" is a hit-making bonanza! The latest chart-climber off this disc is Lisa Loeb's and Nine Stories' "Stay (I Missed You)." The song resembles a stream-of-conscious- ness conversation between two lovers. They are unclear about the future of their relationship. Their biggest problem seems to be a lack of understanding about what each wants from the relationship. One accuses the other of hearing only what she wants to hear and never listening well. When they do try to break up, the girl dis- covers that she misses the guy. He asks her to stay. Putting all of this together, the situation help each individual focus on what he or she wants. During their time apart each person could con- sider these questions honestly: 1. Do I really want to work at solving the prob- lems between us, or am I just addicted to the ongoing drama? 2. If making communication more effective is my goal, what must I do? 3. Ifa magic genie could suddenly pop out of a bottle and offer to do anything to make the relation" ship fun and loving again, what would I ask him to do? 4. How well am I listening to my partner? What does this situation look like from his or her point-of" view? 5. What is all of this teaching me about myself and how I interact in relationships? Perhaps the most important question from my list concerns listening. This involves temporarily setting aside our own agendas in order to listen. (We can listen without surrendering our own values.) All of us can practice listening with more attention and openness. (Your comments are always welcome, please address: Charlie Martin, RR 3, Box 182, Rock" port, IN 47635.) And you said that I was naive/And I thought I was strong/I thought, hey/I can leave, I can At the movies: Current reviews NEW YORK (CNS) -- The following are capsule reviews of movies recently reviewed by the U.S. Catholic Conference Office for Film and Broadcast- ing. "Andre" (Paramount) Pleasant fact-based story of a family living on the Maine Coast where in the 1960s father (Keith Carradine) and daugh- ter (Tina (Majorino) rescue an orphaned seal pup who be- comes so attached to its adopted human family that for 24 years the seal made its way back to them after every win- ter thaw. Director George Miller embroiders the playful antics of the personable seal Memo to Los Angeles church employees hints at end to ball strike LOS ANGELES (CNS) -- Could the end of the major league baseball strike be in sight? An Aug. 15 memorandum to chancery employees from the Los Angeles Archdiocese ad- vises those employees with tickets to the Aug. 31 =Chancery Night" baseball game at Dodger Stadium to hang on to them. According to the Dodger Group Sales Office, we should not anticipate canceling our date at this time. They believe the strike will not last more than two weeks, thereby end- ing Aug. 26th," the memo states. In the meantime, the memo urges hopeful employees to "keep a good thought and pray" that the game will go on as scheduled. The players went out on strike Aug. 11 to keep team owners from instituting a salary cap system aimed at controlling the economics of the sport. Federal mediators were called in to help the two sides come to an agreement. In Baltimore Archbishop William H. Keeler said he hoped the strike would end soon because "the World Series and the pope's visit would be a great double header." Should the Baltimore Orioles win the American League pen- Hi-Tech Sheet Metal Inc. Residential, Industrial & Commercial Heating & Cooling Installation Sales & Service [ 4:zz-9z4Z I OperatedbyMlrhaeitmdPatrctoKocb 15 S. Third Avenue, Evansville 00Y,LOW II II I { I I I JASPER LUMBER CO. COMPLETE BUILDING SERVICE Ph: 482-1125 FIT. 4, JASPER I nant, they would be clue to host a World Series game at Oriole Park in Camden Yards Oct. 23. Pope John Paul II is slated to celebrate a midday Mass there the same day, at the end of a four-day visit to the United States and United Nations. As the strike began the "O's" were still clear pennant con- tenders. With a 63-49 record they were just six-and-a-half games behind the league-leading New York Yankees and only two-and-a-half games behind the 66-47 Cleve- land Indians in a battle for the new wildcard slot in the restruc- tured pest-season playoffs. =Here in Baltimore we are still rooting for the Orioles," Archbishop Keeler said in an Aug. 16 statement. On a more serious level he lamented the work stoppage not only for the players, owners and fans but for all the smaller busi- nesses and workers that the strike affects economically. =Especially here in Balti- more we are concerned about many people whose work de- pends on the baseball season going forward," said the arch- bishop, who is also president of the National Conference of Catholic Bishops. "For some, baseball-associated business is their livelihood. For others, it means second jobs to make ends meet and for college stu- dents, summer jobs." with several subplots about prickly individuals and com- munity misunderstandings in a sentimental story stressing positive parent-child relation- ships. The U.S. Catholic Con- ference classification is A-I general patronage. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is PG -- parental guid- ance suggested. "Color of Night" (Holly- wood) Trashy potboiler in which a psychologist (Bruce Willis) has a steamy affairwith an aspir- ing actress (Jane March) while trying to save himself from being killed by one of his five group therapy patients. With its emphasis on sadistic vio- lence and promiscuity, director Richard Rush's ludicrous melo- drama displays a slick, sick sense of humor and reduces troubled characters to empty caricatures. Some gruesome vi- olence, sexual encounters with nudity and much rough lan- guage. The U.S. Catholic Con- ference classification is O -- morally offensive. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is R -- restricted. "A la Mode" (Miramax) Tepid French fantasy in which a hapless 17-year-old or phan (Ken Higelin) is appren- ticed to a Jewish tailor (Jean Yanne) who adopts him, en- courages his talents as a fash- ion designer and helps him marry the girl of his dreams (Florence DareD. Director Remy Duchemin's bland suc- cess story avoids the trouble- some pitfalls of youth to con- centrate on the father-son relationship of tailor and ap- prentice with feel-good results that may be too sweet for some tastes. Subtitles. Brief bed- room scene with nudity and implications of a premarital ltionship. The U.S. Conference classification III -- adults. The ture Association of Am eri( rating is R -- l "Th( A 15th-century (Colin Firth) has his about the virtues of rural folk shattered after ting up practice in. town ruled by fear, supe tion, lust and murder. and directed by Leslie Md hey, the glossy British tion turns medieval life freak show of bizarre cases volving bestiality, and animals tried as but its titillating count lacks any alone historical insightS. graphic sex, dity and emphasis on hypocrisy. The Conference classification -- morally offensive. tion Picture Association America rating is R "" stricted. "In the Army N w wood) Tiresome time.waster dopey comic Pauly Shore ing the Army Reserves money, then getting for active duty in the desert where he knock out an enemy site. Director Daniel . strings together a vice comedy cliches stale as Shore's dumb humor is inept. Heavy inuendo, stylized coarse language. Catholic ConferenCe tion is A-III  adultS. tion Picture Associi America rating is parental guidance