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12 The Message -- for Catholics of Southwestern Indiana is it time to forget it? By CHARLIE MARTIN Catholic New Service LET'S FORGET ABOUT IT I told you I was sorry, fl told you I was wrong./I said it was an accident/And don't tell anyone. But you love to circle/Round and round,/You're so misunderstooddYeah, you love to circle/Round and round)And you know that we should/Forget about it. Let's forget about it. You lied about how much you knew./I thought you were my friend./You lied upon the mattress./C'mon tell me where you've been./You lied about this night apart./You lied about the roomdIf you're gonna have/To lie to me then Let's forget about it./Let's forget about it. I'll stop crying on the mountain/That we made from the molehill/Where we spilt the milk. So you say this never happened,/Perhaps not the way I thought./Did I throw this out of focus,/Or was it just the way we fought?/That it seemed to me/You took this girl,/But you swear to God it's not. Let's forget about it./Let's forget about it. THE CATHOLIC COMMUNICATION CAMPAIGN NEW YORK (CNS) -- The fol- lowing are capsule reviews of movies recently reviewed by the U.S. Catholic Conference (USCC) Office for Film and Broadcasting. ratings are also given by the Motion Picture Association of America (MPAA). "Can't Hardly Wait" (Columbia) Failed coming-of-age comedy in which couples at an unsuper- vised high school graduation party break up, make up or attempt to act wild and crazy. Co- directed by Harry Elfont and Deborah Kaplan, the tiresome proceedings feature stereotyped characters lurching uneasily between looniness and loneliness. An implied sexual encounter, some underage drinking and ver- bal crudity with minimal profan- ity and rough language. The U.S. I II I CORRESSELL, INC. HEATING AIR CONDmoNING REFRIGERATION Cornme - dusVml - Reskkmd Alan Corressell 426-1440 Dr. Jane A. Hormuth Chiropractic Physician 474-0704 Horm Cpra I. 1111 S Green River Rd., Suite 104 I [ IJ i II l I ii I'll stop crying if you'll stop./I'll stop crying if you'll stop./I'll stop crying,/If you'll stop lying to me. Written by Lisa Loeb, Juan Patino Sung by Lisa Loeb Copyright (c) 1997 by Furious Rose Music/ Music Corp. of America Inc. (BMI)/ Juan Patino Music Publishing Let's say you get into a problem with someone you are dating. Let's suppose that you really get hurt. At what point do you say to the other person "Let's forget about it?" Lisa Loeb's latest cassingle "Let's Forget About It" describes precisely such a situation. It is off her "Firecracker" CD along with her hit "I Do." The song doesn't fully describe the situation, but the girl does sing, "You lied about how much you knew, I thought you were my friend." Deceiving another, whether directly or by omission, always hurts a friendship. The other person, she says, loves "to circle round and round, you're so misunderstood." .Apparently, he is not doing anything to heal the hurt. Finally the girl says, "TII stop crying on the mountain that we made from the molehill where we spilt the milk. I'll stop crying if you'll stop. I'll stop crying if you'll stop lying to me." If the situation truly is a "molehill," then I agree. They are just recycling negative emotional energy that, if continued, is likely to end their friendship. However deception is no small concern. When you lie, you destroy trust. Broken trust is not some- Catholic Conference classification is A-[I[ -- adults. The MPAA rat- ing is PG-13 -- parents are strongly cautioned that some material may be inappropriate for children under 13. "Dirty Work" (MGM) Leaden comedy in which two losers (Norm Macdonald and Artie Lange) start a revenge-for- hire business, then are tricked into doing an undeserved nasty deed for a smarmy tycoon (Christopher McDonald) upon whom they turn the tables. Director Bob Saget tries unsuc- cessfully to cobble together a series of pranks, pratfalls and silly stunts for the dumb-and- dumber duo to act out in this creaky clunker. Some slapstick violence, sexual innuendo, brief nudity and frequent crude humor. The U.S. Catholic Con- ference classification is A-III adults. The MPAA rating is PG- 13  parents are strongly cau- tioned that some material may be inappropriate for children under 13. "Mulan" (Disney) Boisterous animated tale set in ancient China, where a rebellious daughter (voice of Ming-Na Wen) disguises herself as a man to fight invading Huns in place of her sickly father. Directors Barry Cook and Tony Bancroft meld sumptuous visuals with contrived humor (from Eddie Murphy as a sassy dragon) in a musical tale of female empower- Tent in which romance plays SYNTHETIC LUBRICANTS JANET M. MARTIN AMSOIL DEALER J M Sales RR 2 Box 24-1 Haubstadt, IN 47639 Ph: 812-768-6571 I I I II WILLIAMS BROS. TH CARE mPHARMACY "Your Health Care ProfessIs" Charles C. Williams, R.Ph. Jeffrey W. Williams, R.Ph Mark A. Williams, R. Ph. tO Willian Bros. Drive Washington, IN 47501 1-800-264-0064 Fax (812) 254-7857 ,, . i I I Ill =1 June r thing that can automatically be gotten baek :: to be rebuilt and proved over time. If telling the truth is an ongoing someone, it could make an ongoing difficult too. Both individuals need to address lie has on their individual feelings a in the relationship. If their feelings can honestly and accepted, then the first step lishing trust has been taken. It can be difficult to accept you are the person who lied. not reacting defensively or offering excuses, 1 nificant step. Realize that it is going to take person that you have hurt to feel the as before. If you accept the other I: time, you will show that you warrant nity for being a better friend. If the relationship has a future, point "I forgive you" will become the words to hear and will serve as a more a helpful response than "Let's forget ness does not mean forgetting. Rather, it you value the friendship and you have faith of you can grow. All of us make mistakes. God us to get stuck in whatever mistakes Use your mistakes as a path to become person that God believes you can be. Your comments are always welcome. PleaSe Charlie Martin, 7125 W 200S, Rockport, second fiddle to issues of self- identity, honor and patriotism. The U.S. Catholic Conference classification is A-I -- general patronage. The MPAA'rating is G -- general audiences. "The X Files" (20th Century Fox) Meandering drama based on the TV series in which two stub- born FBI agents (Gillian Ander- son and David Duchovny) investigate a bombing being used to cover up a global con- spiracy involving frozen aliens, a mutating virus and the possi- ble colonization of Earth by extraterrestrials. Rob directs what amOttnts hour series episode more than the visuals of amidst elaborate government spiracles which are resolved. Brief and explosions, fanity and language. The U'S; Conference adults. The PG-13 -- parents cautioned that may be dren under 13. 486-3977 Just off Hwy. 50 in Montgomery, IN All You Care To Eat 00a00t00{ BANQUET ROOMS AVAILABLE .,l,,=.,,,aw,e, PRE-ARRANGED AMISH TOURS FLEA MARKET EVERY TUES. & Browse The Village Every Monday Seniors receive == The Catholic Diocese of Evansville is accepting applications for a professional Campus Minister at the Ur Southern Indiana and applications for a professional Campus Minister at Vincennes University. We are seeking applicants who are able to imple pastoral letter on campus ministry, are self-directed, who have expen two-year commuter or four-year residential colleges, and candidates who ar able tO identify, release, and unify the giftedness of students, faculty, Applicants must be l:tive and practicing Roman Catholics in good st Excellent benefits, 403b plan, and competitive salary. Fax r6sum6 to: "Campus Ministry Search Committee" (812) 421-1334, e-r r6sum4 to: Marknoah@aol.com or send r6sum6 to: NO. Box 4169 EvansV IN 47724. Phone: (812) 424-5536 ext. 228. :ii iiiii L3