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18 The Message -- for Catholics of Southwestern Indiana --- On The Record-- EVERY DAY I I got lost/Couldn't find my way/And I guess there isn't more to say/Love can make you blind/Can make you act so strange/But I'm here, and here I will stay/So every day I Three signs of love By CHARLIE MARTIN CNS COLUMNIST cry/Yes every day I fall/You were the one why Why I love everything about you (REFRAIN) But every day I say I try/To make my heart be still/Till then every way there is to cry/Our- selves to sleep we will It picked me up, knocked me off my feet/I got no way to explain/Still I love you, love you, love you/But the fire inside/Will never see the light of day/So every day goes by/And every day I fall/It makes me wonder why/My life's worth nothing without you (REPEAT REFRAIN) You'll never know, no, no, no/You'll never know/Just how close we were/You'll never know/You'll never see i ally much without you (REPEAT REFRAIN) Written and sung by Phil Collins Copyright (c) 1993 by Atlantic Recording Co. The book closes and we try to forget/But I know that things won't change/How we feel/How life goes on/And that seems so strange/And soon life fades away/Every day, try, try, try as I may/I can't stop thinking about yon/It seems that my life's/Nothing re- How does anyone know where romantic love is leading? Have you ever felt lost and confused be- cause what you thought was love turned out to be a dead-end relationship? Listening to Phil Collins' latest hit, "Every Day," is likely to generate such questions. The guy in the song is not sure how this romance got lost. He simply "couldn't find my way," and now "there isn't more to say." He wonders why "love can make you blind" and make you' act so strangely. However, love doesn't have to lose its way or be blind or strange. Lasting love possesses a road map that may include a few surprise detours. Yet love still knows where it is going. This type of love follows road signs that tell a person that love is headed toward something worthwhile. The first of these indicators is respect. When a relationship is based on love, respect is always present. Even when discouragement or disap- pointment colors the relationship, each person treats the other with value and dignity. Trust is the next road sign. Because of the way trust affects each individual, an environment of safety thrives in the relationship. Thus, each per- son can share thoughts, feelings, needs, . and" and can count on the other. .... : Again, trust means that when  not reached, there is a commitment sonal differences. The couple trusts that work on honoring appropriate individual As a pastoral counselor and a therapist, I've had the privileg many marriages. These couples have other important road sign, namely, a ality. Such couples seek God's presence dation for their growth in love. This spirituality can take many ples experience God in finding the Creator through the Others look to a shared vision or helping their brothers and sisters in They spend time working together to assist : people. : Still other couples find s pating in the church's liturgy together themselves in parish activities. Whatever their choice, there exists practice of spirituality that can be relationship. Surely, there are other posts for the path of love. I mention these examples of what teens e for as they learn more about relationshipS' find respect and trust and a shared may still not know how love will evolve, some important indicators that real (Your comments are always address: Charlie Martin, RR 3, port, IN 47635.) USI professor: 'Understand the past as a thread tothe A panel discussion involving University of Southern Indi- ana, U.S. and German political figures will be held at the Uni- versity of Southern Indiana on Wednesday, April 6, at 7:30 p.m. The panel discussion on "Unification and the Rise of the German Right -- Implica- tions for U.S.-German rela- tions" will be held in the Uni- versity Center, Panelists will include U.S. Representative Frank Mc- Closkey, a member of the House Foreign Relations and House Armed Services commit- tees; Christian Pauls, a politi- cal counselor with the German Embassy in Washington, D.C.; Dr. Greg Thielmann, officer in charge of German affairs with the U.S. State Department in Washington, D.C.; Dr. Walter Rinderle of Vincennes, histo- rian and author on the Third Reich; and Dr. Walter Jar- makowicz, USI professor of management who has been an educator in both East and West Germany. The moderator of the panel will be Dr. Donald S. Wolfe, USI associate professor of Ger- man. "As you know, April 13 is National Holocaust Week," said Wolfe. "Educators and the public media have the respon- sibility to everyone, especially the young, to help them under- stand the past as a thread to the present." Wolfe noted that the citizens of southern Indiana have had the opportunity to see the movie, Schindler's List," to view the Anne Frank exhibit in the Evansville Museum, and to talk with Holocaust survivors. "They can now gain an under- standing of the myriad prob- lems confronting the new Ger- many as it looks to a future inextricably tied to its difficult history." The panel discussion is one will also Enlow lecture, Turns to Film," of a series of events preparing for the visit of German author and screenwriter Uwe Timm, the 1994 Enlow Distinguished Scholar. As the Enlow scholar, Timm will present a public lecture, "Germany's Right Wing and the Challenge to Intellectuals," at USI, Forum I, on Thursday, April 14, at 7 p.m. CST. Timm on CST. Timm an informal day, ,pril 15. at the USI two of his lates Snake Tree aq hunter. CTNA: Introduction to A book th?t may ange your life. for thC:better BOOK REVIEW advocate of all works of social statements and biased media reports on pro-life issues. What made this book most powerful for me was a simple comparison between slavery before the Civil War, the Holo- caust in Germany, and abor- tion today. DeCoursey writes, "The common thread tying each of the three together is the question of legal person- hood. In each instance--slav- ery, genocide and abortion-- the responsible governments made a conscious decision that a group of human beings would be categorized and treated as less than human .... DeCoursey gives us a fresh look at some of the events of our time and the often dis- torted interpretations they re- ceive. This book is timely, powerful and much needed. The Catholic Tele Network of America duction to St. Paul," ries with scripture s gene LaVerdiere. The four half-hour on Tuesday, May 17, CTNA CDT, and on TuesdaY, 7:30 p.m. CDT. The programs will days at 3:30 p.m. CDT from May 20 CTNA programs are transmitted on Ku" satellite SBS 6, Transponder 13. By FATHER ERIC LIES, O.S.B. Lifting the Veil of Choice: Defending Life. DeCoursey, Drew. Our Sunday Visitor, Inc., Huntington, IN 46750. Available for $4.95, plus $2.05 for postage and handling, from Abbey Press Gift Shop, St. Meinrad, IN 47577. justice, and a long-time mem- ber of the International Co- Workers of Mother Teresa. Her Foreword is powerful stuff. She says: "There is no more choice, once a child has been con- ceived--a second life is in the womb of the mother. To de- stroy that life by abortion is murder .... DeCoursey's essays range in length from a few lines to sev- eral pages. Some are simple personal reflections. For exam- ple, "We fight for the right to life of whales, timber wolves, the praying mantis and pre- born birds. We resist capital punishment for murderers, yet we show disregard for innocent human life when it causes in- convenience." Other of De- Coursey's essays are penetrat- ing critiques of public Don't read this book (or this review) if you'd rather stay comfortably insulated from the abortion controversy. The little book of essays looks innocent enough, with the face of a charming child on the cover. It's short126 pagesand easy reading. But if it affects you the way it did me, it ,may change your life. It may give you a new motive for fervent prayer. It may even motivate you to do something appropri- ate in defense of unborn life. Drew DeC0ursey is no wide- eyed zealot. He is a seasoned MILLER & RUXER FORD - LINCOLN - MERCURY COMPLETE Auto! Home! 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