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8 The Message Monthly m for Catholics of Southwestern Indiana --- On The Record--- Fear restrains trust in others WILL YOU BE THERE? I'm lying beside you/Just thinking about us/Too tired to go to sleep/And too much in love/I know I'm crazy/But I can't close my eyes/I'm worried you won't be there/In the morning when I risedWill you be there?/Who do you dream about?/Are you alone in your sleep?/To whom will you reach out?/Oh, let it be me/Oh, baby you're my obsessionMy addiction, my drug/Don't want to be without you/When I wake up. CNS COLUMNIST I (REFRAIN) Will you be there in the morning?. /Will you be there when I want you?/Will you be there when I wake up?/Oh, I need you to be there/In the morningJWill you be there? Well you are so close to me/But I feel so alone The more I touch you/The more I want/Don't know what to do/About me loving you/But I pray to God/That you feel it too/You're my ob- session/My addiction, my drug/So let the can- die grow/Into a great fire of love. (REPEAT REFRAIN) Wanna love you forever/Don't want a love/That is now or never/Can't you see that you've got me/Down on the floor/I want more, more. (REPEAT REFRAIN) Written by Robert John "Mutt" Lange Sung by Heart Copyright (c) 1993 by Out of Pocket Productions Ltd., Zomba Music Publishers Ltd., Capitol Records Inc. Heart's new CD is titled "Desire Walks On." Climbing the charts off this disc is their cassingle "Will You Be There?" If you are looking for advice on how to build a successful relationship, you'd best look elsewhere. Perhaps the song is meant as a parody of ro- mance. Whatever its intent, the song serves as an apt description on how not to have a relationship, that is, unless you want to be bonkers! The girl in the song sees her partner as "my ob- session, my addiction, my drug." She asks him: "Who do you dream about? "Are you alone in your sleep?" Clearly, this woman has not learned that trust is fundamental for love to be real and lasting. While there is nothing to take seriously in the song, it does raise this question: What should one do when being overcome by feelings of jealousy and possessiveness? Jealousy may be natural but it is rarely helpful. Behind most jealous feelings lies fear. The fear may never be expressed directly, but it often acts to control another and the direction of the relation- ship. Control takes all the fresh air out of love, leaving romance with a stale, stifled future. i" iii If you find yourself acting in jealous, ways toward another, look clearly at Be honest. Try to identify the fear that your trust. After some time of honest, clear your thoughts and concerns with your ner. This might be scary, for one could feel nerable. Fear tells us to hide our weaknesseS. are to be loved and accepted. However, the opposite is more likelY:t When we take full responsibility for . and the behavior that flows out of tlles we take a step toward deeper closenessl other. Such a choice states that our tions have hurt the relationship but # learn to do better. Taking this risk is an act of love. the other person to express his or your jealousy. Whatever resentments can then be released. Once more, the takes in the fresh air of renewal that above. God wants to help us transform and pects of fear. When you are struggling its close cousins, jealousy and God to help you face the truth. God's take you to the individuals who can come fear. You can learn how to share love controlling and uplifting way. (Your comments are always address: Charlie Martin, RR 3, port, IN 47635.) 'Life Goes On' star among Christopher Award win NEW YORK (CNS) -- Chris sented Feb. 24. ers, directors and producers of Burke, a spokesman for the National Down's Syndrome So- : ciety who starred in the ABC series "Life Goes On," will be honored with a youth award as part of the 45th annual Christopher Awards to be pre- The Hallmark Hall of Fame was named to receive a special Christopher Award for its long- standing commitment to excel- lence in television drama. Other winners of ChristO- pher Awards include the writ- MILLER & MILLER "A family name you can trust" 424-9274 Catfish Filet Dinner Every Friday During Lent (Except Good Friday) February 18 - March 25 Includes vegetable, drink and dessert Take-Out Available Serving time: 4PM -7PM NATIVITY 3635 Pollack Ave. Between Green River & Vann four movies, six TV specials and 11 books. Burke will receive the James Keller Youth Award, named for the founder of the Christo- phers. The award is given to individuals who have made a significant contribution to the well-being of young people. Movies named to win Christopher Awards are "In the Name of the Father," "Schindler's List," "Rudy" and "Shadowlands." Television specials honored include PBS' "Something Within Me" and "The Ameri- can Experience: Eisenhower" and ABC's "There Are No Chil- dren Here." Among the books named to receive awards are "Dead Man Walking: An Eyewitness Ac- count of the Death Penalty in the United States" by Sister Helen Prejean, a Sister of St. Joseph of Medaille; "Having Our Say: the Delany Sisters' First 100 Years" by centenari- ans Sarah and A. Elizabeth Delany with Amy Hill Heath; :and former Beirut hostage Ed. L. Lee Mortuary 101 North Meridian Street Washington, IN 254-3612 Brian Keenan's "An Evil Call- ing: The Five-Year Ordeal of a Hostage." Young people's books win- ning awards include "It's Our World, Too! Stories of Young People Who Are Making a Dif- ference" by "Anne Frank: Diary7 / by and" Rian translated by and Plym CTNA announces new video contest WASHINGTON (CNS) CTNA has named two win- ners in its 1993 youth video contest and has announced it will hold the competition again. In the 1993 contest's high school category, the 10th grade accelerated theology class at Villa Maria Acad- emy in Erie, Pa., was the winner. Brother Sean Mc- Grath of Nada Hermitage in Crestone, Colo., won in the college/young adult cate- gory. Each a plaque of $1,000. CTNA, the telec will sponsor again in 1994. any young 28. Entries programs long that portance of ues in Videos mus' and basis tential. Entry For Dennis Fourth St. ton, DC 20C 541-3458. Miller & Colonial Supp Knights MEMBERS Bernie Miller Geral Jon Miller Greg i: ..,"